keeping track, this cycle

I realize I haven't been keeping track on here, so:

0 dpo, jan 10: insemination in a.m., one day after strong opk line
1 dpo: strong ov cramps, very tired
2 dpo: very strong ov cramps, woke me up at 3:30am, very tired
3 dpo: very mild cramps, slight twinges, can't stop eating, very tired
4 dpo: slight twinges, can't stop eating, very tired
5 dpo: dull aches in uterus area, pinchy at times very emotional & tired, wet cm, breasts sore
6-10 dpo: breasts are sore in a deep way, almost feels bruised from the side. woke up very stuffy 10dpo, had wet cm 6-8 dpo. still tired. very emotional 8-10 dpo. slight aches but hardly noticable.
11 dpo: breasts still sore, nose is a bit stuffy. My uterus feels hard - B put his hand on it last night to see if there was anything there energetically (he does cranio and is in tune with those sorts of things) and he said it was very busy. I have been feeling a bit of a tugging or heaviness there for a few days. Still tired today, even though I had a latte this morning. I lifted many boxes this morning and am a bit nervous - my uterus feels more active since then. Not sure if I can wait to test, but I want to wait until at least 14 dpo...
12 dpo: BFN. I couldn't wait. Heavy breasts, not much of any feeling in my uterus.

I might be tired because it's been gray and dreary outside, and I can't get myself to bed before midnight.